Everything Does NOT Happen for a Reason, So Stop Saying That!

Posted on March 30, 2017 by The Cupcake Warrior

“Well, everything happens for a reason.” My friend says with a sigh. I know she means well. The comment is meant to bring me comfort, and help her feel that she is connecting with my pain, on some level. It is the sort of thing people say when they don’t know what to say. But […]

Unimaginable

Posted on January 8, 2017 by The Cupcake Warrior

This song from the musical Hamilton, speaks to my heart more than any break-up song could. I have been thinking about the song a lot lately. This morning when I woke up the words of the song were already playing in my head and the tears just started to flow. I have learned when that happens […]

Drowning in Sadness

Posted on November 23, 2016 by The Cupcake Warrior

Sadness Letter Write a letter to your partner expressing you feelings of sadness and loss. This should not be a place to express anger so if you feel anger go to you anger letter to add those. This should be about what makes you sad. Use phrases like, “It makes me sad that” or “I […]

How You Nearly Destroyed Me…

Posted on November 23, 2016 by The Cupcake Warrior

Anger Letter Write a letter to your partner to share just have their addiction has impacted you. Be specific and honest. Do not hold back. Tell them how angry you are and why. Because of what you did, there are some choices that I will never get to make… that is why I am so […]

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Everything Does NOT Happen for a Reason, So Stop Saying That!

Unimaginable

Drowning in Sadness

How You Nearly Destroyed Me…